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Madrid Open
Okay Nadal about to play shortly, let me get one more post in real quick. Answer a few more questions and get prepared to watch the next one to leave our beautiful sport of tennis.
But ladies check this out;
https://www.instagram.com/reel/C6UjbXvPJuP/?igsh=YmZsYmI4cG5mM2M0
Don’t let society define you and make you live a lie. But within this same thought, don’t let a man use you up! You’re valuable thus no one gets you for free! You’re not a whore, you’re just not FREE!
Heal, so you know that attention is not love, attachment is not connection, and the bare minimum is not effort.
Ladies, my sisters, please romanticize your life. Go on solo dates, study in coffee shops, buy yourself flowers, wake up early to do a workout, and cook yourself some dinner. I promise it will bring you happiness not for people to see just for yourself!
Doing it for you is the real flex! Off social media!
I’ve shared this before, I kiss myself daily, on the shoulder or on my knee somewhere. I started this back in 2017. I’ve not stopped. It’s habitual now! My oldest son always kisses me on my forehead when he comes into my home. I’ve always loved that. So, I started kissing myself!
Find something that makes you happy.
I buy myself flowers! I watch tennis! I stay redoing rooms in my house.
Do what makes you happy. Tend to your own garden and it’ll grow. It will spread out! You’ll be in abundance.
I’m speaking from experience and not judgement!
My siblings tease me and tell me all the time, I need some sex. I need to get a man. I should get me a toy! I listen and laugh. I know and they know I will do no such thing. Don’t let society and people you know make you do something foolish! Hear all things but hold fast to that which is true!
My body is precious. My heart is precious. My kisses are precious. My time is valuable.
And guess what? I love me some me baby!
The other day my oldest son was like mom where is all that gray hair coming from? Little did he know I started graying in 2003. I kept my hair dyed. Child, I have way more summers behind me than ahead of me. I’m good. Plus I have alopecia. I’m not putting no more chemicals in my hair. And when it completely falls out, I’ll get me a wig or simply wear it low!
In the words of India Arie, I am not my hair! I have so much more to offer than my outward appearance! I know this now! I’m such a solid woman. I’m loyal. Faithful. Committed. Dedicated. Not a ride or die but I’m there with you! Lose me if you want to. You’ll dream and think about me. Please believe me!
But I had to live and learn to totally understand this.
Sis, hold on. Tend to your garden. Focus and live! You’re right where you’re supposed to be right now!
I love you and be encouraged!
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Hang On Ole Soldier
I think Mississippi Mass sings that song!
One day you will meet someone who will understand your story and protect you because they won’t want you to suffer the same pain again.
Until then, just hang on ole soldier! Watch some tennis, travel, stack your dollars, remodel rooms in your house, exercise, and drink plenty water!
Happy Monday and be encouraged Sis! 🩷💚
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This
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLHsbu8r/
Be Encouraged!
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Truth
Where is the lie? You can’t find one! Receive it!
Be encouraged sis!
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Inside Out: A Queen’s Journey
Inside Out: A Queen’s Journey is now on Amazon. Get your copy today!
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This Weekend
This weekend was about family!
Friday night in Indianapolis, I was able to see my nephew get inducted into the Devine nine by pledging Kappa Alpha Psi. And then Saturday, I was able to surprise my oldest sister and attend her book signing! Only to wake up and be headed into work to realize I left my passport and had to get removed from the trip with unpaid management. But the weekend didn’t end terribly because now I’m back home in bed with Serenity watching tennis!
Jesus is so good to me! Every single time the devil tries to trip me up, here comes my savior!
Jesus really does care about me and I’m glad about it! Here are a few pictures!
The book signing! 
He’s the Kemist, the 7 Klub! I really enjoyed myself with my siblings and nephews!
All Sandra Children have been through some mess, but also, all five of Sandra children have their own house, job, and I must admit, doing well for themselves. But this nephew of mine that just pledged is making her and all of us, very proud. Full ride to undergrad and now a full PhD fellowship to Purdue University to study Analytical Chemistry with a focus on Drug Research!
I’m encouraged on today!
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Her voice
LMBO……..
What do you all think of this commentary? I’ve never been this sort of woman that she’s referencing but know of women that have done this. But it’s her commentary and her voice that has me over laughing really loud.
Shaking my head!
Ladies! Ladies! Ladies!
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This is Hilarious
This is so funny! First off she shouldn’t be egging him on. Just get your babies and go!
Second, a baby don’t keep no man! Take the money and run because basically that’s all you’ll get till he wants some of that stuff between your legs!
I had to tell my son girlfriend when she got pregnant, first son, first kid, don’t keep no man! Trust me!
Then they want to cause straight chaos when they knew what they were getting when they were getting it!
Straight hilarious!
https://www.instagram.com/reel/C6LzFLouawI/?igsh=N29ieGRmcHU4emti
I pray he didn’t put his hands on her though! I pray he didn’t!
I’ve always told my sons to simply walk away! A woman can’t beat no man!
Sis, take care of yourself. Make your mistakes and learn from them and move out sharply!
Be Encouraged!
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Living my Best Life
I ain’t got no time to waste!
Yeap, I maybe sitting at home studying all day but please know I’m living!
Tomorrow is not promised! If you’re not on this, stay away from me!
Be Encouraged Sis!
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This
https://www.instagram.com/reel/C6CZEatOtIb/?igsh=MWc5ZjAxMm0wbnhyMw==
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