Madrid Open

Okay Nadal about to play shortly, let me get one more post in real quick. Answer a few more questions and get prepared to watch the next one to leave our beautiful sport of tennis.

But ladies check this out;

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Don’t let society define you and make you live a lie. But within this same thought, don’t let a man use you up! You’re valuable thus no one gets you for free! You’re not a whore, you’re just not FREE!

Heal, so you know that attention is not love, attachment is not connection, and the bare minimum is not effort.

Ladies, my sisters, please romanticize your life. Go on solo dates, study in coffee shops, buy yourself flowers, wake up early to do a workout, and cook yourself some dinner. I promise it will bring you happiness not for people to see just for yourself!

Doing it for you is the real flex! Off social media!

I’ve shared this before, I kiss myself daily, on the shoulder or on my knee somewhere. I started this back in 2017. I’ve not stopped. It’s habitual now! My oldest son always kisses me on my forehead when he comes into my home. I’ve always loved that. So, I started kissing myself!

Find something that makes you happy.

I buy myself flowers! I watch tennis! I stay redoing rooms in my house.

Do what makes you happy. Tend to your own garden and it’ll grow. It will spread out! You’ll be in abundance.

I’m speaking from experience and not judgement!

My siblings tease me and tell me all the time, I need some sex. I need to get a man. I should get me a toy! I listen and laugh. I know and they know I will do no such thing. Don’t let society and people you know make you do something foolish! Hear all things but hold fast to that which is true!

My body is precious. My heart is precious. My kisses are precious. My time is valuable.

And guess what? I love me some me baby!

The other day my oldest son was like mom where is all that gray hair coming from? Little did he know I started graying in 2003. I kept my hair dyed. Child, I have way more summers behind me than ahead of me. I’m good. Plus I have alopecia. I’m not putting no more chemicals in my hair. And when it completely falls out, I’ll get me a wig or simply wear it low!

In the words of India Arie, I am not my hair! I have so much more to offer than my outward appearance! I know this now! I’m such a solid woman. I’m loyal. Faithful. Committed. Dedicated. Not a ride or die but I’m there with you! Lose me if you want to. You’ll dream and think about me. Please believe me!

But I had to live and learn to totally understand this.

Sis, hold on. Tend to your garden. Focus and live! You’re right where you’re supposed to be right now!

I love you and be encouraged!